Thoughts

April 23, 2019

2 Rules for Single Ladies Trying to Go On A Date

I can hardly call it fair to tell the guys how NOT to approach a woman without giving the women a little accountability as well.  As much as women want to push off the pressure to connect, we have some responsibility in our own matching making too.

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April 16, 2019

Women Have Superpowers, This I Know

Once upon a time… there was a very smart man that made the best realization for mankind.  He discovered women had superpowers.  And he knew the man could not compete.  So he did what he had to do in order to get on top.  He convinced the entire population, women’s superpowers were instead: weaknesses.

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April 2, 2019

A Warning About “No Filter” Instagram Posts

I was going to sneak this into a short Instagram caption but then decided it ALL needs to live here.  It’s been weighing on me.  And, in light of trying to stay off social media, this seemed like the right place to share.

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March 26, 2019

Life Stories: SXSW, Planting a Vineyard and More…

I haven’t written my little life stories in awhile & they’re my favorite – the entire reason I started MissBassmater.  I’m trying to creep away from capturing all my life details on Instagram Stories, so I thought it would be fun to catch up here!

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March 19, 2019

10 Things To Do at Any Park

It’s no secret that I’m obsessed w the park.  Any park.  I consider time at the park my second home.  Not only is it necessary to walk my dog, it always makes me feel better when I’m outside in a big open green area on the planet earth.

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March 12, 2019

Dating: How To Approach A Girl

Inspired by the man who wouldn’t get out of my way in the mall last week, I’ve compiled a list of ways you absolutely should NOT try to pick up someone you’re attracted to.  Hoping to bring women together with these examples & a heads up for any guy reading, this list should come in handy for all!

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February 26, 2019

5 Favorite Quotes on Love

Let LOVE prevail.  This was challenging you guys.  I’m not a big cheesy love quote person, I’m actually very far from it.  There are few romantic quotes that speak to me, but in my relationship, it’s hard to take most romantic quotes seriously.

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February 14, 2019

My Word Of The Year, Love

I LOVE YOU.  I mean it.  I’ve been quietly mentioning all month how my word of the year is: LOVE.  I’m not sure if having a word of the year is a thing or not, but it felt right.  2019, living with the word LOVE at the front of my mind?

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January 24, 2019

5 Favorite Quotes on Health

I wouldn’t consider myself a quote junkie, but I do have a few that I reference as a quick reminder.  If you find a few quotes that motivate & support you – you’ll always have a backbone to fall on when you lose focus.

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January 17, 2019

What Makes You Happy?

It’s still the beginning of the year, a lot of people are either setting their goals or reviewing them.  I asked someone this question recently after talking for awhile: What makes you happy?

You should be able to answer that.

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January 8, 2019

It’s My Birthday, I Want To Cry Now

OMG it’s my birthday & I would love a solid cry.  Not because I’m getting older.  Because last year…sucked.  I want to cry it away, cry it’s frustrations out, just cry.  But after that, smile.  Aggressive mood swing.  But it’s over.

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January 1, 2019

Happy 2019! We made it.

YAY! It’s officially 2019.  It’s here, we made it!  And another year bites the dust.  Is anyone ready to get back to their regularly scheduled program with work & food?  All the sugar & extra meals can get annoying.  I made a Pecan Pie & literally cut it in half for Wafiq & I to split.  Excuse me while I vomit.

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